Eight Shining Lights from the Chemo Room

Posted on December 27th, 2011

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Where to buy Adobe Photoshop CS4 Extended 32 bit Stella. Of course the eighth light is Stella herself. At different times throughout our ordeal, I have gotten drunk, punched walls, broke down in tears, and raised my arms to the sky screaming “WHY???” at the top of my lungs.  Not Stella. She calmly accepted the situation and kept telling me that she was going to get through it. At times, I even got frustrated because she didn’t seem to listen to the Doctor’s horrible prognosis.

Once I suggested that we fly to Switzerland to look at mountains. Or go anywhere in the world to do whatever she wanted. But she rolled her eyeballs and told me we would travel one day when she was all better. “Hey, hey, it’s not so bad,” has always been her line when things aren’t so good, and even cancer has not altered her tune.

I don’t know how I could have dealt with the situation if our roles were reversed. But Stella is the bravest, strongest, most spiritual person I know and every day she has the light of a full menorah burning inside her.

Chanuka Sameach — Happy Chanuka.




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  1. Genendy says:

    Hi Jordan and Stella and Miriam and Max and Rivka and Yedidya,
    Chanukah Sameach!!
    What a beautiful Chanukah post…to see light in the darkness and pain. I think about you and daven for you all the time. My Chanukah wish for you is that the surgery go smoothly and successfully and the recovery be quick and complete. I miss you!
    (I’m in Boston until the 1st with Michali)

  2. Carla Friedman says:

    I just want to wrap my arms around the two of you. Stella, you are a brave and wonderful woman. Yarden, the words you write make us feel you and Stella through them. Hopefully, also you feel our love and strength go out to you from the states. Thank you for these updates. We are praying for continued good news. Hugs and love to all of you.

  3. rutimizrachi says:

    You forgot to mention the shamash, Yarden. The only one of those candles by whose light we are permitted to read. Thank you for shining your light, and helping to dispel our darkness. May our whole families share many happy stories, for many long, healthy years.

  4. Paul Goldstein says:

    Rutimizrachi has it right, Yarden – you are the shamash. Keep up the good work, keep lighting the candles (especially the eighth one), and G-d willing we’ll have a wonderful outcome in just a few days.

  5. Iris says:

    Very inspiring piece, Yarden. Both you and Stella spread the light of inspiration and positivity– truly you two are soulmates.

  6. libby anfinsen says:

    chazak v’amatz……..you are half way to home plate!!! libby

  7. libby anfinsen says:

    chazak v’amatz……..you are half way to home plate!!! it is always darkest
    just before the dawn!!!!libby a

  8. Jill Smudski says:

    Yarden, I am always so moved by what you write. You are certainly Stella’s strength, as she is yours. Channukah Sameach, and with Hashem’s help, you will get through this. Fondly, Jill

  9. Sharon says:

    Your message moved me to tears – again. And I agree with Rutimizrachi. Without the Shamash, the shining light of your words would not lead the way for the rest of us to be able to help support your family spiritually and emotionally.
    With love & hugs,

  10. Moishe Lewack says:

    Beautiful words, Yarden! The ladies are right, you are the Shamash! Yarden, you are a fantastic writer and a pillar of STRENGTH (even through your humble words above, your strength shows). Stella, you are awesome and the most courageous woman I know (Pam, forgive me). May your Chanukiah shine bright for many years to come. Chanukah Sameach!


  11. rachel himelstein says:

    literally shining examples that continue each day to inspire and share their warmth with all those around. through your flame we feel your strength.

  12. tali schaum says:

    got here because you are friends of friends..
    your posts, each and every one of them, have brought me to tears. i bless you both, hashem should listen to all of am yisrael who are davening for stella’s continued improvement, and you are mamash a shining inspiration of strength, love, light and faith to all who know you (and even to those who dont!..)
    praying for you all…